Becoming One: Week 3: Intentional and Inviting Communication

Marriage is one of life's greatest treasures, yet only 6% of American marriages reach 50 years. The difference between thriving and surviving relationships lies in biblical love that combines agape (selfless concern), eros (romantic love), and philia (friendship). We naturally drift away from intimacy, turning covenant love into contractual arrangements. However, marriages can move from intense conflict to intimate connection through intentional and inviting communication. Five practical steps can transform relationships: give genuine weekly compliments, never resurrect forgiven offenses, dedicate two hours weekly to God, practice daily 15-5 connection time, and throw away the escape hatch mentality. The key is becoming a mercy pass-alonger, drawing from Jesus to fill others' lives with undeserved grace.

Resources:

Discussion Guide: https://chapinccc.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Becoming-One_-Week-3_-Intentional-and-Inviting-Communication-Discussion-Guide.pdf

5-Day Devotional: https://chapinccc.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/03/Becoming-One_-Week-3_-Intentional-and-Inviting-Communication-5-Day-Devotional.pdf