If you’ve been navigating hot flashes, mood swings and starting to not give a damn- then this one, is for you.

This week we’re joined by People’s 2025 Creator of the Year, Melani Sanders- author and founder of the We Do Not Care Club for a truly unfiltered conversation about the realities of perimenopause. We dive into Melani’s journey- and how being candid online led to a vital community- the We Do Not Care Club.

Follow Melani and her journey at @justbeingmelani, and find out more about her book, the Do Not Care Club at https://wedonotcareclub.com/

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Certified breathwork facilitator and founder of The Self-Care Suite Tara Pringle Jefferson joins us to reframe self-care beyond consumerism. Drawing from her new book Bloom How You Must: A Black Woman’s Guide to Self-Care and Generational Healing, Tara unpacks the “strong Black woman” narrative, shares what was happening in her life when her doctor literally prescribed rest as medicine, and points out practical ways to build support, not just stamina. We get into social and professional wellness (hello, sabbaticals), the power of “third places,” why it’s important to indulge creative rituals that aren’t rooted in perfectionism, and the intergenerational wisdom she gathered from talking to 100 Black women ages 19–99. Plus: Toni Morrison’s lesson on boundaries, Coretta Scott King’s vocation-as-service, and a simple mandate for 2026 (remember you’re human).

For more from Tara:

Bloom How You Must (book + tour dates)

The Self-Care Suite (Tara’s community)

Tara on social: @WearWomenBloom (IG / Facebook / Threads)

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Be Well, Sis is hosted by Dr Cassandre Dunbar. This episode was edited by Victoria Marin. Our Production Manager is Kathleen Speckert.

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In this special New Year’s Eve episode, we’re looking back on 2025 and reflect on rest, rejection, joy, grief, and community. We revisit some of the conversations, cultural moments, and personal lessons that shaped the year, while naming what we’re proud of for simply making it through.

What are we leaving behind? And what are we carrying forward into 2026?

This episode is an invitation to release what no longer serves us and step into the new year with more intention, softness, joy, and more of ourselves.

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We’re supporting St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Head over to www.stjude.org/bewellsis right now and sign up to be a monthly donor. Together, we can make a real impact.

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Be Well, Sis is hosted by Dr Cassandre Dunbar. The show is edited, mixed and produced by Megan Hayward. Our Production Manager is Kathleen Speckert.

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See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.