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We're coming full circle from our podcast on right-wing authoritarianism to talk about that viral Oklahoma student essay and why Christians rallying around bad arguments makes all Christians look terrible. Then Keith and I get vulnerable about how our faith has changed over the last few years—from realizing faith isn't just about beliefs, to understanding who Jesus actually called out (spoiler: not "the world"), to reframing the concept of sin as form of brokenness that God truly understands and has deep compassion for (as opposed to the angry God who is mad at us all the time). We’ll also share some of the exciting things coming in 2026!

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Keith and I went through 11 clips from evangelical influencers and pastors that have been driving people crazy all year—you know, the ones that sound almost right but make you feel like you're going insane? We break down why Josh Howerton's claims about conservative mental health don't hold up, why blaming women for divorce is absurd, and how complementarian teaching about male authority actually contradicts what Jesus taught.

If you've ever felt gaslit by marriage teaching in church, this episode will help you understand why—and give you permission to trust your gut that something's very wrong.

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LINKS MENTIONED:

• Josh McPherson Feminism ruins everything
• John Lovell my wife is not in charge
• Mark Driscoll kids can’t be priority
• Josh Howerton on Islam and Jana on Feminism
• Unchained at Last stats on child marriage
• Canada on child marriage
• Turning Point saying it's women's fault
• Rachel Jankovic husband doesn’t help

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It's episode 307 of the Bare Marriage podcast! Holly Fletcher joins us to talk about her AMAZING new book Missionary Kids. I devoured it in one sitting. We need to listen to the stories of these kids, because they're a microcosm of white evangelicalism!

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• Check out Missionary Kids by Holly Berkley Fletcher
• Holly's Substack: A Zebra Without Stripes
• Holly on Blue Sky
• Instagram
• Threads
• Etsy
• Our book She Deserves Better

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Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Marriage You Want and the Study Guide
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.