Negative and Misinformation about BPD

As a woman with borderline personality disorder who has had relationships before treatment and after extensive treatment and studied psychology courses, I have to say that this information is not the full spectrum of information available. You are getting a very limited view from this woman as well as a very repetitive narrative, “you’re doomed from the start”. She claims that those with BPD are unable to love someone else. This is complete bullshit. I have deeply loved my partners since Middle School. Also, it’s not only during infancy that borderline personality disorder forms, not only during Early Childhood(ECD is the crucial developmental mile stones from birth through age 5). The first 10 years of my life were wonderful and I had very caring and attentive parents. My mom had a near fatal car crash when I was 10, had a traumatic and unexpected death by heatstroke when I was 11. Then although I expressed my objections my father married my then current 6th grade teacher when I was 12. Not an infant. Also a person only will develop BPD if they also have a genetic de disposition for mental health issues AND there’s some form of childhood trauma or abandonment. I was honestly excited to find something on this topic while browsing for stories and I am beyond disappointed. I a
m really concerned for people who are also listening to this not only is it going to be very upsetting for a person who does have untreated borderline personality disorder or even treated BPD(because I’m quite annoyed and upset by it myself). Honestly, it is the untreated borderlines that I fear hearing this the most. They very likely could find this misinformation completely devastating. And I would hope this author is aware that 1 in 10 people diagnosed with BPD ultimately successfully commit suicide. Sovyeah let’s throw some more depressing shit at them. While at the same time you’re deterring everyone from even trying to date someone with borderline personality disorder. It’s like we are to be written off and not worthy of love. Attempting to banishing us to this corner of the world that’s untouchable and warning others to to stay away. The fact is,it’s the only mental health disorder you can recover from you can be cured of or go into remission. It’s not a death sentence although at times it certainly feels that way. I hope people find this review helpful and I hope you read it so you don’t listen to her book of monotonous misinformation in her Debbie downer, mono tone voice. I’m not normally someone who goes out of my way to leave a negative anything anywhere but this was really just too much to not say something. All love is work regardless if you have BPD or not. Truth is I think there’s a much larger portion of our population that has BPD who do not realize it. Not to mention we have like generations of people who don’t have any emotional intelligence, coping skills, or the ability to express themselves. It’s unfair to attack and condemn those of us with BPD, there’s a lot of people who are completely dysfunctional in relationships. More so than not in my experiences. Anyways, I hate giving a bad review, I am someone who goes out of my way to spread kindness and compassion and compliment strangers. Even if I agreed with the text, the monotone “dry eyes guy” kinda presence is painful to listen to and hard to stay engaged. If you want info on dating with bpd or dating someone with bpd there’s much better material out there. Information not based on stigma. Best of luck to all you brave dating warriors out there! Stay safe and wear a mask!

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