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  • Hair Horror Stories and life behind the chair for 20+ years

    Hair Horror Stories and life behind the chair for 20+ years
    Jan 28 2026

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    Hair Confessions: Awkward Salon Stories, Transformation Haircuts, and Personal Growth


    Join Rachel and Jessica in a lively episode of 'BDE: Books, Dating & Everything' where they dive into all things hair! From awkward salon stories and transformation haircuts to deep conversations about self-expression and personal growth, this episode is packed with laughter and heartfelt moments. Tune in to hear about Rachel's childhood haircut disaster, Jessica's hair struggles and triumphs, and the wild encounters they’ve had in their two-decade-long hairdressing careers. Perfect for anyone who loves spicy reads, chaotic dating tales, and deep convos about love and life.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:50 Haircut Excitement and Childhood Hair Stories

    01:29 Hair Struggles and Styling Disasters

    16:16 The Emotional Impact of Haircuts

    17:39 Societal Expectations and Personal Style

    21:34 Client Stories and Hair Perceptions

    25:18 Daily Style Choices

    25:46 Hair Decisions and Regrets

    27:14 Eyebrow and Teeth Trends

    30:00 Salon Stories: Embarrassing Moments

    36:29 Client Confessions and Awkward Situations

    46:54 The Joys and Challenges of Being a Hairstylist

    48:10 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell
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    49 m
  • Mental Health and the Importance of Listening to your Body

    Mental Health and the Importance of Listening to your Body
    Jan 21 2026

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    Listening to Your Body: Why Self-Care Matters


    In this episode of BDE, Rachel and Jessica talk about the importance of listening to your body and understanding when it's time to rest. They share their own experiences with burnout, self-care strategies, and the pressures of societal expectations. From spontaneous mall outings to the power of a good scream, Rachel and Jessica discuss different forms of rest and why it's crucial to give yourself permission to take a break. Tune in for a heartfelt conversation that encourages you to be kind to yourself and prioritize your well-being.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    01:12 A Rough Week: Embracing the Need to Pause

    02:23 Mall Therapy: Finding Joy in Simple Pleasures

    03:24 The Power of Connection and Authenticity

    03:57 Unexpected Delights: Bacon and Bonding

    11:21 The Importance of Different Types of Rest

    14:09 Listening to Yourself: A Journey of Self-Discovery

    16:31 Finding What You Need Right Now

    17:11 Permission to Do Nothing

    17:55 Listening to Your Body

    19:36 Sitting Down to Eat

    21:34 Multitasking Madness

    24:26 The Importance of Self-Care

    27:31 Expressing Anger Healthily

    30:25 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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    31 m
  • Vibrators, P*rn, and Sorry, Baby movie review *trigger warning for SA*

    Vibrators, P*rn, and Sorry, Baby movie review *trigger warning for SA*
    Jan 14 2026

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    From Spicy Reads to Self-Pleasure: Exploring Books, Dating, & Everything in Between


    Join Rachel and Jessica on BDE where they discuss everything from their love for spicy books and chaotic dating stories to deeper conversations about love and relationships. In this week's episode, they cover a variety of topics, including an emotional recount of a powerful movie about sexual assault, personal stories of anger and self-pleasure, and the evolution of sex toys. Along the way, they provide laughter and real talk, creating a space for candid and important discussions.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:53 Chaotic Dating Stories and Spicy Reads

    01:43 The Good Hand Massage Fiasco

    07:02 Understanding Anger and Boundaries

    08:12 A Deep Dive into a Powerful Movie

    11:39 The Aftermath of Trauma

    27:29 Taking Back Power and Self-Pleasure

    27:56 Exploring the World of Porn

    28:26 Discovering Unexpected Content

    29:03 Opinions on Pornography

    31:36 The Male Gaze and Female Preferences

    35:45 Historical Perspectives on Female Pleasure

    38:26 Evolution of Vibrators

    40:56 Personal Experiences with Sex Toys

    49:10 The Importance of Sharing and Community

    51:11 Conclusion and Farewell
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    52 m
  • Heated Rivalry Fever and Why Representation Matters

    Heated Rivalry Fever and Why Representation Matters
    Jan 7 2026

    Books, Dating, and Everything in Between: 2026 Kickoff with Rachel & Jessica


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    In this episode of BDE (Books, Dating, and Everything in Between), hosts Rachel and Jessica welcome listeners to the new year, 2026. They dive into various discussions ranging from their chaotic but endearing morning prep routines to indulgent holiday reflections and New Year resolutions. As they navigate through the episode, they offer hilarious dating stories, book recommendations, and candid talks about self-love and acceptance. The duo also reviews recent movies based on popular books, such as 'Regretting You' by Colleen Hoover and others. They particularly highlight the popular MM (male on male) romance 'Heated Rivalry,' and discuss its impact on representation in media. Rachel and Jessica express their excitement for the trending queer love stories, celebrating their positive ripple effects. The episode wraps up with more laughter, love, and plans for future episodes.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:44 New Year, New Beginnings: Embracing Change

    06:46 Movie Reviews: From Books to Big Screen

    09:47 Exploring Love and Relationships in Film

    12:40 Avatar and Other Cinematic Adventures

    18:19 Heated Rivalry: A Deep Dive into the Series

    25:49 Sweet Muffins and Tough Love

    27:17 Shane's Struggle with Identity

    30:04 Ilia's Confidence and Family Struggles

    30:58 Tender Moments and Banter

    32:29 The Big Reveal

    37:17 Exploring MM Romance

    41:50 Book Recommendations and Personal Reflections

    50:10 Concluding Thoughts and Community Engagement
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    51 m
  • Countdown our Favorite Moments of 2025

    Countdown our Favorite Moments of 2025
    Dec 31 2025

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    Memories & Mishaps: Hilarious Trip Stories and New Year Reflections


    Join us in this hilarious and heartwarming episode as we recount our favorite memories and mishaps of the past year. From unforgettable trips and spontaneous tattoos to explosive drinks and awkward encounters, we dive into the essence of true friendship and the joy of shared experiences. Plus, get a sneak peek into our plans for the new year, including potential dating events, a unique book club, and more exciting adventures. Laugh, cry, and reminisce with us as we celebrate the journey and look forward to what's next!


    00:00 Introduction and Struggles

    00:14 New Year Recap and Inside Jokes

    01:36 Memorable Trip to Bend

    04:22 Unexpected Restaurant Experiences

    05:40 Tattoo Adventure

    07:31 Annoying Encounters and Karaoke Fun

    16:34 Reflecting on Friendship and Healing

    18:53 Countdown of Memorable Moments

    21:48 Hilarious Drink Disaster

    23:00 Embarrassing Moments at Nordstrom

    24:38 Forcing Dates and Awkward Situations

    25:57 Exciting Launch and Bedazzling Party

    26:25 Teddy Hamilton Cameo Surprise

    31:02 Meeting Author Sarah Kate

    36:10 Voice Notes and Fan Interactions

    39:52 Future Plans and Exciting Events

    42:16 Conclusion and Appreciation
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    44 m
  • Nightmare Dates and Books on the Naughty and Nice Lists

    Nightmare Dates and Books on the Naughty and Nice Lists
    Dec 24 2025

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    In this episode of ‘BDE,’ best friends Rachel and Jessica dive deep into the chaotic world of dating mishaps and book recs. Get ready for a wild ride as Rachel recounts a disastrous date filled with car wreck near-misses and endless monologues about Houdini. The duo then transitions into compiling their ‘Naughty and Nice’ book lists of the year, juxtaposing steamy tales with feel-good reads. Whether you’re into spicy romance or gripping fantasy, there's a recommendation for you. Tune in for honest chatter, hearty laughs, and some second-hand embarrassment.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:56 Catching Up: Meltdowns and Morning Crashes

    01:12 Today's Topic: Books Over Disappointing Men

    01:48 Story Time: A Date Update

    02:26 The Date: From Start to Finish

    20:02 The Awkward Goodbye

    23:29 Naughty and Nice Book List

    29:02 Extra Presents and Pucking Around

    29:10 Book Reviews: The Longest Book Ever

    29:50 The STAR Rating System

    31:25 Pucking Around: A Mixed Review

    32:31 Nice List vs Naughty List

    33:09 Fantasy Series Highlights

    34:50 Romance Series Reviews

    36:53 Dark Romance and Naughty Reads

    47:55 The Hellfire Series and More

    50:25 Year-End Reflections and Farewell
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  • Episode 16: Awkward Dating Stories and Tarot Readings

    Episode 16: Awkward Dating Stories and Tarot Readings
    Dec 17 2025

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    In this episode of BDE, Rachel and Jessica uncover a series of chaotic and hilarious dating experiences that range from a man revealing his wife left him for another woman on a first date to an impromptu toe-show. They also delve deep into the emotional rollercoaster of modern dating and the confusion around post-date texting etiquette. The duo wraps up the episode with insightful tarot readings that offer a glimpse into future love, new beginnings, and life changes. Join us for a candid conversation that’s equal parts laughter and profound reflection.


    00:00 Welcome to BDE: Books, Dating, and Everything In Between

    00:53 Diving Into Embarrassing Dating Stories

    04:49 The Sweat Date: A Hilarious Disaster

    10:49 Gross Dating Experiences: Meat in My Mouth

    17:04 Awkward Double Dates and Red Flags

    22:28 The Hobo Lifestyle: A Dating Dilemma

    27:10 Unexpected Encounter with a Tinder Match

    30:42 The Date and a Shocking Comment

    30:55 Discussing Online Dating Frustrations

    39:46 Tarot Reading for Love and Future

    41:30 Personal Tarot Readings and Reflections

    57:31 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans
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  • Episode 15: Book Games and Random Facts About Us You Never Asked For

    Episode 15: Book Games and Random Facts About Us You Never Asked For
    Dec 10 2025

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    Join Jess and Rachel for an entertaining and candid chat as they reveal personal stories, including a hilarious bug incident and an intriguing 'scientific anomaly' tale. They share random facts about themselves, discuss past jobs, and explore their hobbies like ice skating and tarot reading. Dive into their favorite book recommendations and enjoy their amusing attempt at summarizing them in a game. This episode is packed with laughter, surprises, and heartfelt moments you won't want to miss!


    00:00 Unexpected Bug Encounter

    01:28 Random Facts About Us

    01:44 Book Talk: Quick Fire Round

    02:46 Embarrassing Stories and Hidden Talents

    11:16 Jobs and Life Experiences

    20:52 Tarot Readings and Intuition

    23:22 Scientific Anomaly Story

    24:08 Medical Fears and Pregnancy Challenges

    25:36 The Shocking Discovery

    27:58 Labor and Delivery Ordeal

    29:39 Post-Delivery Revelations

    33:28 Book Game: 10-Word Descriptions

    35:21 Book Recommendations and Reviews

    45:30 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
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    47 m