Ask Mom with Sue Donnellan Kids & Smartphones

Kids & Smartphones: Rules Every Parent Should Set Before Handing Over a PhoneHanding your kid a phone isn’t a tech decision, it’s a leadership one. In this episode,Sue lays out the mindset and the must-haves that separate a calm, values-driven phonehandoff from a chaos spiral. We’ll show you how to define the why, set expectations thatactually stick, and avoid the most common trap parents don’t see coming, until it’s toolate.What We Talk About The question to answer before you even look at devices How to decide readiness without using age as the yardstick The “first-phone” agreement that does the heavy lifting (and why most fail) Training-wheel options that buy you freedom without turning you into the phonepolice The silent risks hiding in notifications, group chats, and late-night DMs, and thesimple way to defuse themYou’ll Walk Away With A tight structure for your Family Phone Agreement (purpose → boundaries →safety → accountability) A quick gut-check to decide if now is the right time…or not yet A short list of safer first-device pathways to considerHighlights Why this milestone is different from every other purchase Readiness: the three behaviors that matter more than age The agreement clause that prevents 90% of arguments Devices that ease you in (without opening the floodgates) The 3–6 month review that keeps you in the driver’s seatResources Mentioned Family Phone Agreement Quiz: Ask Mom “First-Phone Gut Check” Tools: Starter-device paths and monitoring options discussed in-episodeOne-Liner to RememberDon’t buy a phone - build a plan. The device is hardware; the rules are theoperating system.Connect Sue Donnellan: AskMomParenting.com | Instagram | YouTube Work with Sue: Free consult | Programs & coursesPress play to get the blueprint, so the first phone builds trust, not drama.🔗 Links & Resources: · Free Facebook Group: Yell-Free Parenting for Exhausted Moms · Sue’s Book: Secrets to Parenting Without Giving a F^ck · Want 1-on-1 coaching? Book here · Get Sue’s Weekly Newsletter: Subscribe now Thanks for listening! Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a mom who needs to hear it.Please support UnsilencedVoices.org a global 501(c)3 nonprofit that empowers survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault, and human trafficking. We thank Smith Sisters and the Sunday Drivers for our theme song, "She is You".Be sure to connect with us on BlueSky, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and come tell us your story!WordofMomRadio.com - sharing the wisdom of women, in business and in life.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/word-of-mom-radio--5252572/support.