In this deeply practical and insightful episode, James and Lisa unpack a powerful diagnostic tool from GiANT called the Peace Index. This framework helps individuals—and couples—measure five key areas that influence internal wellbeing: purpose, place, provision, personal health, and people. With honest reflection, engaging stories, and easy-to-use language, this episode equips you to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and take intentional steps toward renewed peace in your life and marriage.

Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or just want to grow more aware together, this episode offers clarity, connection, and tangible next steps.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• The Peace Index Visual Tool (by GiANT)
• Marriage Reboot Coaching with James & Lisa
• Book: The Purpose Formula by Jessica Rimmer

Related Episodes:

• Ep 64 – The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage
• Ep 19 – The Tension Is Real: Money Stress in Marriage
• Ep 7 – Know Yourself to Lead Yourself
• Ep 21 – The Power of a Pro-Marriage Collective

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In this heart-opening episode, James and Lisa share exciting updates—including the relaunch of the Live Lead Last podcast—and how launching something new inevitably impacts marriage. They introduce the Change Equation, a powerful visual tool from GiANT that explains why real change happens—or doesn’t—in relationships. Through vulnerable personal stories and practical insights, they walk you through how to overcome resistance together using vision, first steps, and emotional clarity. If your marriage feels stuck or off-track, this episode will help you reconnect and move forward with purpose.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

• Marriage Reboot Coaching
• Live Lead Last Podcast (Launching June 4)
• Free Five Voices Assessment
• Voices 25 Conference – Oklahoma City
• Change Equation Visual Tool

Related Episodes:

• Ep 64 – The Five Voices: Unlocking Better Communication in Marriage
• Ep 59 – Navigating the In-Between Seasons of Marriage!
• Ep 29 – Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage With Ted Lowe
• Ep 7 – The Gap Between Here and There

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• Instagram: @artofspousing
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Commitment in marriage is so much deeper than just staying under the same roof. In this episode of The Art of Spousing, James and Lisa Duvall explore what it really means to build a lifelong marriage rooted in intentional, daily choices. They unpack the four layers of commitment—personal, moral, spiritual, and structural—and share how couples can move from surviving to thriving, even when seasons get tough. You'll also hear real stories, biblical encouragement, and practical tools you can start using today to strengthen your "we still do."

Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, this conversation will help you cultivate a marriage that lasts — and inspires.

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Marriage Reboot Coaching Experience — 3 months of intensive coaching designed to help you move from surviving to thriving FREE 30-minute Discovery Call — Schedule with James and Lisa here

Related Episodes:

• Four Choices to a Masterpiece Marriage with Don and Joy Bray
• How to Strengthen Your Marriage by Building on Common Ground
• Practising the Art of Spousing
• The Gap Between Here and There

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