In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re diving headfirst into the wonderfully messy world of the Am I The Asshole subreddit. From secret recordings that blow up weddings, to surprise houseguests who overstep big time, to navigating friendships with former flings, these stories are packed with awkward tension and moral gray areas.

We’re breaking down who crossed the line, who needs a reality check, and where boundaries and loyalty get hilariously tangled. Plus: is it ever okay to keep a secret from your partner if it’s “for their own good”? Or to prioritize your friend’s comfort over someone’s privacy? We’ve got opinions.

Listen along as we play judge and jury with plenty of laughs and just a touch of side-eye. And let us know: who do you think was actually in the wrong?

Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! AITA for recording my friend's fiance at her bachelorette party and playing the recording for him?

AITA for sending my friends home after bringing their kids after I asked them not to

AITH for being friends with someone I slept with in the past?

AITA for not telling my boyfriend about a surprise birthday dinner his mom is planning, even though he hates surprises (and we just fought about hiding things)?

Quick disclaimer, friends — we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re laying down our personal, slightly sacred guide to friendship—aka our “Classy Commandments.” From canceling plans without guilt to speaking in chaotic voice memos, protecting each other’s soft spots, and dreaming about our future friend compound, these are the rules that keep our relationships strong, real, and joyfully unhinged.

We’re sharing what we’ve learned (sometimes the hard way) about midlife friendships—how they evolve, how to keep them close, and why a little bit of cringe is actually the glue.

Join us for laughs, low-key therapy moments, and some well-earned reminders that showing up (even in leggings) is what true classiness looks like.

Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!

In this episode of The Art of Classiness Podcast, we’re peeling back the curtain on our most mortifying moments, plus reading some absolutely chaotic stories from listeners who were kind enough to share their own disasters. From falling asleep mid-pee at a Cowboys game to getting sniped by a bidet, dodging police lights with your pants down, and receiving a very unexpected voicemail from karma itself... this episode is proof that no one is above a truly embarrassing story.

Laugh with us (or at us) as we celebrate the messy, human, totally unclassy moments that make for the best tales later on.

Connect with us on Instagram and TikTok: @artofclassiness Submit your own stories for future episodes! artofclassiness@gmail.com

Quick disclaimer, friends – we're not doctors, just two people who love to share ideas and experiences. This podcast is for fun and informational purposes only. It's not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you have questions about your health, definitely reach out to your doctor or a qualified health professional. Take care of yourselves and use what feels right for you!