Are Boyfriends Embarrassing? | Thoughts on Dating and Self-Worth

Dating in your 30s, 40s, and beyond can feel like a rollercoaster of intuition, red flags, shadow work, and the occasional “oh god, did I really text him that?” In this honest, unfiltered conversation, Bexx and Noie dig deep into the Vogue article, “Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?” The conversation starts with addressing questions from the article and giving their insights from experiences from their own dating life. The two talk about the positive and negative things they have learned from past relationships and how they have changed because of them. They talk about the judgments women face—both from others and from themselves—and what it means to actually trust your own emotions instead of the stories you inherited.

This episode touches on lessons about recognizing toxic relationships, learning to listen to your true emotions, and what it really means to give yourself a fighting chance in the dating world. With their shared years of experience, Bexx and Noie have all the insights and advice to share on how to really live for yourself and find love that is meant for you.

Chapters
[Start] Identity and Stereotypes in Relationships: Bexx and Noie discuss what it’s like to find your identity while in a relationship, and the complex nature of stereotypes.
07:52 Longevity and Connection: The two discuss the difficulties and emotions that come with maintaining relationships when children are involved, especially after going through a breakup or divorce.
18:06 Embracing Your True Feelings: Noie asks Bexx a question that leads to a discussion about accepting the truth about how others make you feel based on their actions.
35:04 Core Values in Dating: Bexx and Noie discuss their core values when it comes to the dating scene and what matters to them when looking to the future with someone.
59:40 Convenience vs. Quality: The conversation wraps up with a conversation about knowing your true value and allowing yourself to accept the things that you deserve.

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• Vogue - Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?

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