Anti-Fat Bias in Healthcare & Chronic Illness: Healing Body Image in a Marginalized Body With Ivy Felicia @iamivyfelicia

What happens when medical care reduces a whole human being to a number on a scale? In this episode of Dr. Marianne-Land, I’m joined by Ivy Felicia, Body Relationship Coach and founder of Luxuriant Life, for a deeply grounding conversation about anti-fat bias in healthcare, chronic illness, and what it actually takes to build peace with your body in a system that often causes harm.

Ivy shares her lived experience as a Black woman of size navigating PCOS, autoimmune illness, thyroid disease, and repeated medical dismissal. We talk openly about the moment a provider told her weight loss surgery was the only option and what it meant to be treated as disposable when she declined. That moment became a turning point that reshaped her relationship with her body and ultimately led to the creation of her Body Relationship Method, a size-inclusive, weight-neutral approach grounded in compassion, self-trust, and holistic wellness.

Throughout this conversation, we explore how chronic illness, medical trauma, and anti-fat bias intersect, and why body positivity is not always accessible or supportive for people living in pain, disability, or marginalized bodies. Ivy explains why she centers body peace rather than body love, and how choosing neutrality and non-violence toward your body can be a more realistic and healing place to start.

We also discuss the role of spirituality and surrender in healing a relationship with your body. Ivy describes how prayer, connection to nature, journaling, and honoring ancestors support her through periods of overwhelm, and why taking healing one breath at a time can feel far more attainable than one day at a time when you live with chronic pain or illness.

This episode also dives into internalized anti-fat bias and internalized ableism. Ivy shares how listening, witnessing, and affirming someone’s lived experience can be profoundly reparative, especially for people who have spent years being dismissed or erased by medical systems. We talk about visibility, self-advocacy, and how being truly heard can help people reclaim their voice and their worth.

If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body because of chronic illness, eating disorder recovery, medical trauma, or weight stigma, this conversation offers a gentler way forward. There is no finish line here. There is no pressure to love your body. There is space to move toward peace, at your own pace, one breath at a time.

About Ivy Felicia

Ivy Felicia is a Body Relationship Coach, certified holistic wellness practitioner, speaker, and founder of Luxuriant Life, LLC. She is the creator of the Body Relationship Method, a trademarked, size-inclusive, weight-neutral approach that helps people heal body image, navigate chronic illness with compassion, and rebuild self-trust. Through coaching, community, and education, Ivy supports people in marginalized bodies in cultivating peace with their bodies without dieting, scale-based wellness, or toxic positivity.

Work With Ivy Felicia

Ivy offers support through her Body Relationship Circle membership, group coaching programs, and one-on-one coaching. You can learn more and sign up for her newsletter at ivyfelicia.com. Follow Ivy on Instagram and Threads at @iamivyfelicia.

Content Note

This episode includes discussion of anti-fat bias in healthcare, chronic illness, medical dismissal, and weight loss surgery recommendations.

Want More Support?

If anti-fat bias, chronic illness, or medical trauma has impacted your relationship with food or your body, you’re not alone. I offer eating disorder therapy and recovery support with a liberation-oriented, neurodivergent-affirming, trauma-informed approach. I work with clients in California, Texas, Washington, D.C., and globally via coaching and education.

You can learn more about working with me and explore my courses and resources at drmariannemiller.com.

Listen in, take a breath, and remember: peace is allowed to come before love.