A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231)

A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231) with Jason McGarva [TESSA] In this episode, we delve into the transformative journey of embracing life after children with Jason McGarva, a seasoned dating and confidence coach. As my partner and I step into our new roles as Open Nesters, we explore the concept of conscious dating and the potential for deeper connections during this stage of life. Jason shares his insights on how our past experiences shape our current relationships and how we can cultivate authentic confidence to navigate the dating world effectively. Meet Jason McGarva on INSTAGRAM A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231) Jason discusses his unique approach to coaching, focusing on conscious communication and self-esteem. Drawing from his background, which includes influences from the pickup artist community, he emphasizes the importance of authenticity over tactics. We dive into the distinction between feeling one’s true value and resorting to tricks or strategies that may mask insecurities. Jason illustrates this point with personal anecdotes, recounting his own transformation from feeling socially awkward to confidently engaging in relationships. 0:59 Meet Jason McGarva 4:06 Learning to Connect 11:36 Dating After Divorce 17:13 Decision-Making and Dating 26:50 The Shift to Authenticity 30:33 Transformative Coaching 36:16 The Importance of Authenticity 41:06 Reflections on Dating The conversation shifts to the nuances of dating in our later years, particularly for women as they navigate a landscape where societal expectations often undervalue them. Jason expresses empathy towards their struggles and highlights the significance of developing a supportive network. We discuss the metaphor of a seesaw to explain relational dynamics, where the way we present ourselves can impact how we are perceived and valued in social contexts. The principles he outlines serve as a guide for those looking to improve their relational experiences—encouraging curiosity and openness while reducing the tendency to engage in negative self-talk. Throughout the episode, we touch on common frustrations faced by individuals re-entering the dating scene. Jason provides actionable advice aimed at building genuine connections through improved social skills and emotional awareness. He encourages listeners to recognize their intrinsic worth, emphasizing that it is not only about finding a partner but also about creating richer, more satisfying experiences with those around us. By learning to communicate authentically and confidently, we open doors to better relationships not only with potential partners but also with ourselves and our families. As we wind down the conversation, Jason shares his own story of vulnerability and growth, underscoring the importance of being authentic in romantic pursuits. His journey through personal challenges and eventual transformation highlights the deep connections that can form when we show our true selves. We conclude with a call to action, encouraging individuals to seek communities that foster growth and connection during these pivotal stages of life—further proving that life after kids can indeed be life wide open, filled with potential and enriching experiences. About Tessa Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters. Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster. Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives. Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question: What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE… Adventure Freedom of Expression Exploration and Fun Body Movement New circles of friends Deep love relationships