A Letter to My Future Child

In this deeply personal episode of Dear Melanin KD, I open my heart in a letter to my future child—someone I have yet to meet but have already loved for so long. I reflect on my journey through loss, healing, and self-forgiveness, sharing the struggles I faced after making one of the hardest decisions of my life. This episode is about growth, about ensuring I become the mother my future child deserves, and about breaking cycles of pain and unworthiness.

I also speak on the importance of choosing the right partner—not just for love but for the foundation of a family rooted in strength and protection. If you’ve ever carried the weight of past decisions, questioned your worth, or wondered what healing looks like on the other side of grief, this episode is for you.

This is my truth, my love, and my promise—to myself and to my future child.