A Fresh Playbook for Your Nonprofit Board: Noses In—Fingers Off

Boards don’t magically run themselves—and this lively discussion proves it. Strategist and facilitator Mary Kay Delvo of Inspiring Sight lays out a practical path for turning board service from a vague obligation into purposeful leadership. She starts with a truth we all feel: “If they knew better, they’d do better.” Most board members were never taught governance, so we must teach it—and then expect ownership.

Mary Kay reframes board work with a memorable mantra: protect and direct. Every decision should answer, How does this protect the organization and or direct it? Pair that with her second keeper—“Noses in, fingers off”—and you’ve got a fast filter for staying strategic without micromanaging.

Her signature Seasonal Board Cycle makes governance easy to see and easy to use:

· Spring – Plant and cultivate: recruit intentionally for perspectives you truly need.

· Summer – Engage effectively: spread work through committees so knowledge isn’t concentrated.

· Fall – Revitalize and harvest: measure real impact, not just attendance.

· Winter – Recharge and look ahead: scan for change, refine strategies, and celebrate wins.

On strategy, Mary Kay replaces the dusty plan with a Strategic Map—a living journey to a destination. The destination stays constant; routes change as conditions change. That’s why boards must revisit the map, assess detours, and make smart adjustments with staff. After the board approves the map, staff craft an Understanding Impact Map with goals, success indicators, reviews, and board reporting—so every meeting tracks progress, learns from misses, and recommends course corrections.

She also addresses the classic tension between boards setting direction and staff living the day-to-day. Her non-negotiable: senior leadership joins the board in mapping, and staff input is synthesized and heard. Otherwise there’s no buy-in—and without buy-in, plans gather dust.

Most of all, Mary Kay gives boards permission to be human. Seasons change. Routes shift. Progress accelerates when everyone knows the role they play and the questions they must ask. Or in her words: “Boards need to be responsible for their own succession, evaluation, and foresight.” When that happens, governance becomes energizing—and impact becomes visible.

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