#9 Outsourcing Love

You've been saving your best self for someone who hasn't arrived yet. The good cooking, the full wardrobe, the warmth, the devotion, all of it held in reserve like a guest room waiting for a booking that keeps not coming.

In this session, David unpacks the trap of outsourcing your happiness to a future partner, where that habit comes from, and how to reclaim that energy so it lands on you first.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why waiting for a partner to feel worthy is costing you the life you're living right now.
• The gardener principle and why the water has to start with you.
• A real story of a man who stopped living in rehearsal and became the main character of his own life.
• The one shift that changes everything: becoming the destination first, before anyone else walks through the door.

This isn't about giving up on love. It's about stopping the wait and starting to live.

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