8 Steps to Determining If Your PMDD Partner Is Really Right for You?

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Have you ever caught yourself thinking "maybe I'm just not compatible with my PMDD partner"? You're not alone. This thought pattern is the number one precursor to breakups in PMDD relationships. But what if compatibility isn't about finding someone who can "handle" your symptoms, but rather someone who adds value to your authentic life?

From my balcony in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, I'm sharing the exact framework I use with my private clients who are questioning their relationship compatibility. These eight simple steps will help you discover what you truly need in a PMDD relationship—beyond what society, family, or even your current partner might suggest.

The journey begins with a radical shift in perspective: instead of focusing on what kind of partner you need, first determine what kind of life you want to live. I walk you through creating a vision of your most authentic daily life, from morning routines that manage PMDD symptoms to evening rituals that honor your natural rhythms. Only after establishing this foundation can you identify how a partner would genuinely add value.

For me, compatibility isn't about finding someone who pays my bills or tolerates my luteal phase behaviors. It's about finding a companion who adds to my core values of freedom, peace, and joy—someone financially stable enough to travel alongside me, calm enough to ground my energy, and spiritually aligned with my authentic self.

This episode offers practical insights whether you're currently in a relationship or navigating the dating world with PMDD. You'll learn how to communicate your needs effectively, identify potential resentments before they take root, and recognize when you're compromising too much of yourself versus making necessary accommodations.

Ready to discover if you're truly incompatible with your partner or simply haven't found the right framework for your relationship? Tune in now and transform how you approach compatibility in your PMDD relationships.