8. New Year, Same You... But with Better Habits

In this New Year's episode, Emily and AJ dive into the reality behind New Year's goals, resolutions, and the pressure to "start over" every January—or every Monday. They unpack why extreme approaches often lead to burnout, guilt, and inconsistency, and how small, realistic habits build confidence and long-term success instead.

Drawing from their experience as nurse practitioners, fitness coaches, and parents, Emily and AJ explain how shifting from motivation-based goals to identity-based habits can help you create sustainable change—without falling into the trap of crash diets, all-or-nothing thinking, or unrealistic expectations.

If you're ready to stop restarting and start building habits that actually stick, this episode is for you.

What You'll Learn in This Episode

• Why New Year's resolutions often fail—and how to make January work for you

• The difference between goals, habits, and identity-based change

• Why extremes lead to burnout, frustration, and loss of confidence

• How small, attainable habits build momentum and long-term motivation

• The power of consistency over perfection

• Why "starting again on Monday" sabotages weekend progress

• How to recover quickly from "off" days without spiraling into guilt

• Practical examples of daily minimum habits that support real-life schedules

"The point is to build confidence in these small changes you're making over time so that it is sustainable." - Emily

Connect with Emily and AJ

Website: https://www.emilylevercoaching.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bedellever/