79.Understanding and Embracing Bids for Connection | Road of Life Podcast

Road of Life Podcast Episode 79

Ever heard of a bid for connection? If not, your relationship might be missing its secret sauce. In this episode of The Road of Life Podcast, We unpack the Gottmans’ groundbreaking research on why tiny moments—like a ‘hmm’ or a shared meme—make or break intimacy.

🔥 What 86% of thriving couples do (and why struggling couples score 33%).

🔥 The ‘hmm’ heard ’round the world: How a casual noise became a lifeline for connection.

🔥 Kids, friendships, and coworkers: Why bids aren’t just for romance (and how to decode them everywhere).

🔥 Turning ‘away’ vs. ‘against’: The devastating difference between ignoring a bid and shutting it down.

We’ll also share:

✔️ The #1 mistake even well-meaning partners make (spoiler: it’s not your phone).

✔️ How a shoulder squeeze saved a friendship (and why tiny gestures = massive trust).

✔️ Our challenge to listeners: Practice bids like a pro (even if it starts with a cat video 🐱).

P.S.: Ready to level up all your relationships? Join our Infinite Relationship Mastermind—a judgment-free zone for growth, laughter, and next-level connection. Link in show notes!"

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