794 - Sabbath School - 7.Oct Wed

The Role of Parents
“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring
them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord” (Eph. 6:4).
“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above
rubies” (Prov. 31:10, NKJV).
Parents have an awesome responsibility. The father is the head of the
family, and the family is the nursery of church, school, and society. If the
father is weak, irresponsible, and incompetent, then the family, church,
school, and society will suffer the consequences. Fathers should seek
to demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit—“love, joy, peace, longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance” (Gal. 5:22, 23).
Mothers, too, have perhaps the most important role in all society.
They have great influence in shaping the characters of their children and
establishing the mood and temperament of the home. Fathers should do
all they can to work with the mothers in the education of their children.
What can fathers and mothers learn from these texts? Eph. 5:22, 23, 25,
26; 1 Cor. 11:3; 2 Cor. 6:14; Rom. 13:13, 14; 2 Pet. 1:5–7; Phil. 4:8.
Christian parents have a moral obligation to provide a biblical model
of Christ and the church by their behavior. The marriage relationship is
an analogy of Christ’s relationship to the church. When parents refuse
to lead, or if they lead in a tyrannical manner, then they are painting
a false picture of Christ for their own children and for the world. God
commands all Christian parents to diligently teach their children (see
Deut. 6:7). Parents have the responsibility to teach their children to love
the Lord with their whole heart. They are to teach the fear of the Lord,
a total loving devotion and submission to Him.
In Deuteronomy 6:7, the children of Israel were given specific
instructions about educating their children in regard to the great things
the Lord had done for His people. However great a story the elders had
to tell their children, we, who live after the cross of Christ, have a much
better one to tell, don’t we?
Thus, the healing or training we are to give is an ongoing proactive
event in which we pour the truth of God into our children and prepare
them for their own relationship with Christ.
In the end, though, we all have been given the sacred gift of free will.
Ultimately, when they are adults, our children will have to answer for
themselves before God.