#63 Inside Out Dating with Lilli Bewley

If you LOVE Embody Your Empress, show us support – click here 💗 https://buymeacoffee.com/EmbodyYourEmpress Hello, hello, hello my beautiful empresses... If your heart has ever been broken, if you have felt lost in love, if you keep crying over the same patterns in relationships and wondering what is wrong with you... this episode is going to land deeply. In this soulful conversation, Sarah King, host of Embody Your Empress and founder of Empress Nation, sits down with Dating Coach Lilli Bewley to talk about love, trauma, patterns and becoming the woman who can actually receive the relationship she desires. Lilli shares her story of doing everything she was "supposed" to do in life... the house, the career, the partner... and still feeling emotionally, mentally and spiritually dead inside. She opens up about growing up without a healthy model of love, attracting relationships where she never felt seen or heard, and repeatedly letting people into her heart who did not have the capacity to truly love her. Through deep inner work, nervous system healing and reconnecting with her intuition, Lilli stopped outsourcing her worth, stopped abandoning herself for crumbs, and called in the most emotionally safe, supportive and grounded relationship she has ever known. Together, Sarah and Lilli explore... Why you can be successful in life yet still feel empty and unseen in love How childhood trauma, lack of modelling and covert and overt abuse shape the way we date Trauma bonds as wounded parts of you leading your dating process, not a sign that you are broken The difference between "doing the mindset work" and actually rewiring your nervous system Why your "bad picker" is often a younger part of you trying to keep you safe Protective beliefs like "there are no good men" or "I do not need anyone" and how they secretly block love What happens in Trigger Town... why the dating world activates all your stuff and how that can become a portal for healing How to move from anxious or avoidant patterns into Magnetic Woman energy that knows who she is and what she deserves Lilli also shares her Feminine Dating Archetypes framework and talks specifically about the Chill Woman archetype... the woman who craves intimacy so deeply that she sacrifices her body too soon, then finds herself ghosted, clinging to relationships that do not serve her, and doubting her own worth. Sarah reflects on her own journey from begging for love crumbs and being ghosted on repeat... to declaring that her worth comes from within, setting strong boundaries for the first time in her life, and calling in a grounded partner devoted to communication, openness and genuine affection. This conversation is for every woman who has ever thought... "Maybe love just is not for me" "Maybe I am the common denominator" "Maybe I am too much or not enough" You are not broken. There are parts of you that learned love equals pain, fear and disappointment. This episode invites you to turn towards those parts with compassion, begin healing from the inside out, and step into your Empress energy in love. At the end, Sarah asks Lilli her signature Empress questions and Lilli shares what her own Empress energy feels like... calm, purposeful, deeply loving and discerning about who gets access to her heart. Turn the volume up, Empress. This one is rich, real and incredibly activating. About Lilli Bewley Lilli Bewley is a Dating Coach for Finding Love with over 10 years of experience in personal development. After spending years in relationships where she felt unseen, unheard and unloved, she did the deep inner work to heal her trauma, reconnect with her intuition and transform the way she relates to love. Today, she helps single, successful women heal from the inside out so they can stop repeating painful patterns and finally attract emotionally available, grounded, soul aligned partners. Lilli is the creator of the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz, a powerful tool that helps women uncover the subconscious patterns driving their dating life and shows them exactly where to focus their healing so they can become the Magnetic Woman who naturally attracts healthy love. Her work blends nervous system regulation, inner parts work, spiritual connection and practical strategy to create lasting transformation. Connect with Lilli Take the Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz: https://www.DatingArchetype.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lillibewley TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lillibewley Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lillibewley YouTube: https://www.YouTube.com/@lillibewley About Sarah King and Empress Nation Sarah King is the host of Embody Your Empress and the founder of Empress Nation, a home for high achieving, spiritually curious women who look like they have it all together on the outside but feel exhausted, overwhelmed and disconnected on the inside. Through powerful yet gentle energetic healing, intuitive guidance, sound journeys, ...