#51 - Before "I do": Five Foundational Beliefs

Peter discusses five foundational beliefs that those who are not yet married may want to consider as they journey through dating, singleness, or early marriage. Friendship, commitment and struggle all make marriage beautiful in different ways. Thanks for listening!

The following songs were used briefly for enhancing our discussion:

•“I Do” by Colbie Caillat — © 2011 Universal Republic

•“The Trouble with Love Is” by Kelly Clarkson — © 2003 BMG

•“We Belong Together” by Mariah Carey — © 2005 Island Def Jam

•“If I Ain’t Got You” by Alicia Keys — © 2004 J Records

All clips used to enhance discussion about marriage; rights remain with the respective artists and labels.

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