46 - Fix the Problem, Not the Symptom | Growth, Mindset & the Holidays

Becca and Jon talk about how Christmas feels different as you get older—more logistics, more stress, and a lot more emotional weight. Jon shares a frustrating car saga after an oil change turns into repeated leaks and unexpected expenses, sparking a real conversation about the difference between gratitude and forced positivity.

Becca recaps an 11-hour caving trip and what it taught her about trusting herself in unfamiliar environments, building confidence through discomfort, and using “transferable skills” from running to handle new challenges. The episode closes with reflections on the year—why the most meaningful moments are rarely planned, how growth takes time (like trees finally bearing fruit), and why being present matters more than chasing one big “highlight” moment.

Merry Christmas from Becca and Jon—thanks for listening.