42. Overwhelm is a Choice (and How to Stop Choosing It)

Are you actually overwhelmed — or have you just trained your nervous system to respond to life with stress, anxiety and panic?

In this episode, Kate Garland explores why overwhelm becomes a default state for so many women -- especially smart, capable, sensitive ones who carry a lot— and why we can become unconsciously addicted to the very state that’s burning us out.

Through personal story, nervous system insight, and a compassionate but honest lens, Kate breaks down the psychology of secondary gain, the stress-hormone loop of cortisol and adrenaline, and how overwhelm can quietly become an identity — even when it’s costing you your health, clarity, and joy.

This episode isn’t about time management or “calming down.”

It’s about reclaiming agency, interrupting old patterns, and learning how to meet your life without chaos running the show.

If you’re tired of feeling behind, stretched thin, or like everything is urgent — this conversation may change how you see overwhelm forever.

Hi Love!

I want you to know how grateful I am that you’re here. . . and I would love to invite you to journey even further with me.

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However you’re walking with this work—thank you. I’m so glad our paths have crossed. Don't forget to Subscribe/Follow (and maybe drop a review!)

xx.

Kate

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