40. Are Dating Coaches Making Things Worse? with Justin Leff

In this episode, Kayla & Justin delve into the phenomenon of dating coaches, discussing its impacts on the dating landscape. They explore the challenges of data collection in the dating industry, the unregulated nature of dating coaching, and its performative aspects. The conversation shifts towards broader societal influences, such as the effects of birth control, shifting gender dynamics, and the rise of polyamory. They also address the role of the internet in exacerbating confusion and inauthenticity in modern relationships. Finally, they touch upon potential solutions, emphasizing the need for curiosity, personal responsibility, and fostering meaningful conversations. 00:00 Welcome Back, Justin!

00:34 Diving into the World of Dating Coaches

03:05 The Unregulated Realm of Dating Coaches

04:09 The Complexity of Human Interaction in Dating

13:51 The Role of Men and Women in Dating Dynamics

19:07 The Impact of Birth Control on Dating and Relationships

33:19 The Rise of Dating Coaches and Sex Work

48:16 The Disconnect Between Men and Women

53:15 The Importance of Romantic Relationships

54:37 The Rise of Non-Monogamy and Its Implications

55:47 Conflict Management and Relationship Challenges

57:15 Polyamory as a Band-Aid Solution

01:03:12 The Role of Dating Coaches and Performative Dating

01:11:21 The Impact of the Internet on Dating and Relationships

01:20:57 Behavioral Awareness Coaching and Individual Solutions

01:22:58 The Complexity of Modern Relationships

01:35:00 Optimism and Solutions for the Future Get in touch with Justin: Website: https://www.soliliumcoaching.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/soliliumthoughts/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@SoliliumThoughts/ Get in touch: Email: [e-mail] IG: @wedontdeservemen Website: https://fxm.global/