#375: The Lies We Carry With Us (and How They Hold Us Back)

What if a story that’s haunted you for years… was never true?

In this short but powerful episode, we dive into a jaw-dropping true story that will make you question the narratives you’ve been carrying — especially the ones that have shaped your identity and decisions for years.

It’s the story of Derek Sivers, entrepreneur and author, who spent 16 years believing he had ruined a woman’s life in a devastating car accident. The guilt became part of who he was — until a shocking encounter revealed the truth: the story he’d built his life around was never real.

And that revelation opens up a much bigger conversation for all of us as freelancers and solo professionals.

What beliefs are you holding onto that no longer serve you? What if the story that’s limiting your potential is a lie you’ve been telling yourself for years?

Key Takeaway:

We all carry stories about ourselves, our worth, our abilities, our mistakes. But sometimes, those stories aren’t rooted in fact. They’re rooted in fear, shame, or incomplete information. And they keep us stuck.

When we challenge those narratives, we create space for healing, growth, and a more empowered future.

Listener Challenge:

This week, carve out 15 minutes to reflect on a belief or story you've been carrying, especially one that weighs you down. Ask yourself:

• Is it 100% true?
• Where did it come from?
• What would change if I let it go?