36: Unreasonable Hospitality in Dentistry: The Secret to Creating Raving Fans & Growing Your Practice

What if I told you that being "reasonable" is the biggest mistake you're making in your

dental practice? After decades of perfecting my clinical skills, I discovered something that

completely changed how I approach patient care—and it has nothing to do with technical

dentistry.

In this episode, I share a counterintuitive principle I learned from one of the world's

most successful restaurateurs that has transformed how I think about practice

growth. This single concept explains why some practices have patients who

become passionate advocates, while others struggle with retention despite

excellent clinical outcomes. The difference isn't what you think.

What You'll Discover in This Episode

A Philosophy That Separates Ordinary Practices from Extraordinary Ones:

• The surprising reason why "reasonable" service keeps you stuck in mediocrity

• A simple story about a hot dog that reveals the secret to creating unforgettable patient

experiences

• Why the thing you think matters most to patients actually matters least

• The hidden cost of small denials that's quietly destroying your practice growth

The Missing

Ingredient in Most Dental Practices:

• What invisible blockages are preventing patient loyalty in your practice right now

• The counterintuitive principle of giving that actually benefits you more than

anyone else

• Why your technical excellence might be working against you

• Who else in your practice ecosystem deserves this approach (hint: it's not just

patients)

A Framework for Transformation:

• How to spot daily opportunities that most dentists completely miss

• The mindset shift that turns transactions into relationships

• What it means to become "the gift" instead of just a service provider

• A measurement strategy that reveals what really drives practice success

Why This Episode Matters

I'm going to challenge everything you think you know about patient satisfaction and

practice growth. If you've been wondering why your excellent clinical skills

aren't translating into the kind of patient loyalty and referrals you expected,

this episode will answer that question. But more importantly, it will show you

exactly what to do about it.

You'll hear real examples of how tiny acts of stinginess cost practices thousands of

dollars, and how seemingly "unreasonable" gestures create loyalty

that lasts for years. This isn't theory—it's a proven approach that's working

in my practice and can work in yours.

Fair warning: This episode might make you uncomfortable. It certainly made me

question some of my own practices. But if you're ready to break free from

average and build something truly extraordinary, you need to hear this.

Mentioned in this episode:

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