35. Raising Kids Who Worship the Giver, Not the Gifts: Countercultural Parenting at Christmas

“Entitlement isn’t cured by guilt—it’s transformed by heart discipleship.”

Every parent wrestles with how to handle Christmas “wants.” But at Legacy, we believe the season is one of the richest opportunities to disciple the heart—not just manage the wishlist.

In today’s episode, John and Lori Lane guide us through how to parent biblically and intentionally when consumer culture gets loud. You’ll hear a powerful reminder: discipling your child toward Christ in December might be the most lasting gift you give all year.

Whether it’s unmet expectations, wish list disappointment, or the deeper longings for value and recognition, this episode offers truth-centered encouragement and practical tools to shepherd your child well.

Takeaways:

• Why biblical gift-giving is rooted in the Gospel
• The contrast between Herod and the wise men—and what it reveals about worship
• How to uncover the heart behind your child’s disappointment
• Simple family practices that re-center the focus on Christ
• Encouragement for weary parents: why it’s okay not to give them everything