31. How Climate, Culture, and Location Shape the Way We Love with Giancarlo Bessa

In this episode of 'We Don't Deserve Men,' the hosts engage in an insightful conversation with multicultural traveler Giancarlo Bessa about how culture and climate influence relationships. Giancarlo shares his extensive experiences living in various countries including Brazil, Mexico, the United States, the UK, Southeast Asia, and the Netherlands. They discuss the challenges of adapting to new cultures, dealing with reverse culture shock, and navigating the complexities of building community and relationships. The episode also explores how factors like weather can impact social dynamics and even masculinity, providing a unique perspective on how location shapes love, connection, and identity. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

01:39 Meet Giancarlo Bessa: A Multicultural Journey

04:28 Language and Cultural Adaptation

07:21 Host's Travel and Living Experiences

14:40 Cultural Differences in Relationships

23:38 Navigating Social Dynamics in Different Cultures

31:27 Planning and Spontaneity: A Cultural Contrast

44:31 Masculine vs. Feminine Cultures: A Theory

48:05 Weather and Cultural Differences

49:54 Abundance and Dating in Mexico City

51:03 Social Dynamics in the Netherlands

54:33 Masculinity and Relationship Polarity

01:01:20 Community and Individualism

01:03:53 Reflections on Moving and Settling Down

01:07:03 Challenges and Rewards of Building Friendships

01:09:08 Polyamory and Subcultures

01:11:43 Comparing Relationship Dynamics Across Cultures

01:18:27 Personal Reflections and Future Plans

01:27:51 Final Thoughts and Closing Questions