3 Brain Science Tips The Metacognitive Science of Letting Go of the Past

Do you feel stuck? Have people told you all you need to do is let go? Have you been shamed by others because you find it hard to stop thinking about how a narcissistic parent has wounded you? Do you ruminate, and find yourself clinging to old memories, plagued by negative self talk? Are you codependent, a people pleaser, who finds it hard to let go, even when you know you should walk away?

If so, this episode is for you.

Inside you will learn Lisa A. Romano's 3 step metacogntive process that teaches her private clients and members of her conscious healing circle, inside the Breakthrough Warrior Membership. These are also the types of logic and neurological based trainings she offers those within her coaching courses. Today, she shares her insights with those in her podcast community in the hopes of inspiring them to believe that the power to change and heal their lives has been within them all along.

But, here's the thing. The power is not in action. It is in metacognition. It's in a particular type of controlled, conscious repetition, that allows for the brain to edit and rewire itself in real time.

Sound interesting?

You know it does! And if you are someone who feels stuck, but you ache for joy, emotional freedom and total authenticity, Lisa's work offers a pathway through the muck of the past.

0:00 Introduction--what reframing what letting to actually means

5:00 defining letting go through the lens of metacognition

6:26 Step One-accepting the external reality (fact gathering)

9:21 Step Two-accepting the internral reality (data observation)

11:00 When your self identity is crushed as a child

16:00 The codependent approval seeking pattern

17:00 The power of self editing and somatic release

17:40 Step 3-the Metacognitive shift from lack to gratitude

18:01 Holding pain and gratitude simultaneously--creates internal balance

18:40 Childhood trauma symptoms to be observed not identified with

19:39 Observing the toxic patterns of negative self talk

20:12 The Gremlins of stinking thinking

20:26 The metacognitive shift using gratitude as a tool for balance

21:43 Emotional freedom explained

23:04 Stinking thinking explained

23:36 The future of childhood trauma recovery (metacognition/neuroplasticity)

24:45 Metacognitive exercise to help you shift

26:13 Seek the shift

27:14 Muscle memory and emotional recovery go hand in hand

27:32 Letting Go reframed as a mental resilience exercise

28:00 Repetition, why its necessary

28:80 The Wizard of OZ comparison; Dorothy had the power with her all along

30:19 Refuse to allow trauma to control your life

31:46 The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program--your next steps

This episode will help you understand the power of a consciously controlled mind, which will help with emotional regulation, and emotional freedom, specifically for those suffering from childhood emotional neglect, codependency, low self worth, people pleasing, and the repeating of toxic relationship cycles.

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