28 - New Year, Same Baggage

Ready to swap “new year, new me” for something that actually works? We break down ten real, repeatable resolutions for divorced dads who want to date with confidence, class, and a sense of humor. It starts with the pictures—no fish, no trucks, no bathroom mirrors—and moves into owning your height, improving your posture, and dressing like a man who respects himself. Shoes and watches matter more than you think, and a couple of thoughtful accessories can turn a hello into a conversation.

We also tackle the stories you tell. The “crazy ex” opener? Gone. Early dates are for light curiosity, shared laughs, and future-forward energy—not unpaid therapy sessions. We show how to set boundaries with warmth, add a little mystery, and keep your messages crisp: clear plans, minimal emojis, no “hey” texts, and never while buzzed. Thinking of using Gen Z slang to sound younger? Use it only for self-aware humor; otherwise, speak like the grounded adult you are.

Most crucially, we talk about leading your vibe. The dating world can feel cynical, but you don’t have to mirror that energy. Practice optimism, build resilience, and protect your kids by keeping introductions for later. When you enjoy your own life—your routines, your style, your state—your presence does the heavy lifting. If you’re ready to retire cargo shorts, stop height math, and start showing up with playful strength, this one is your jumpstart.

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