276. Three Points of Authentic Communications

We all misunderstand what happens during any type of communications.  The first misunderstanding is we always believe what we hear.  The ears are designed to only think what they hear are true.  However, you need to have another sense back up that notion.  

That is how media dupes us all.  Nothing in the media is actually true, if you research it for facts.

That is important to realize.

True authentic communication first requires you to 

1.  Listen without judgement (listen not believing in order to free them up from their past so they can be present)
2. Speak without drama (drama is uncommitted words that cause both people to lose interest and not be present)
3. Get clarity (that means interrupt if you don't know what they are saying and to ask them to repeat what you said)

Those three points are authentic communications