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Lee talks about realising how “thin-skinned” he is at home and at work, and how that sensitivity both hurts (wanting to cry over a throwaway comment about his clothes) and helps him get more quickly to the truth of what’s actually going on emotionally. He and Simon fold this into a wider question of whether you want to be “a radiator or a drain” in relationships, and how different couples’ styles of teasing or volatility shape what feels possible or survivable in a long-term partnership.

Get in touch with Lee and Simon at [e-mail].

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