26 | 3 Ways God's Truth Transforms Your Identity | The Path Home: Phase 4

Have you ever had a breakthrough that didn't stick? Tried affirmations, prayer, even counseling — and felt better for a while, but then ended up right back where you started? What if the problem isn't you... it's that real transformation happens at a level most approaches never reach?

Episode Description

In Phase Four of The Path Home series, Debra reveals why breakthroughs don't always last — and what actually creates permanent, irreversible transformation. This isn't about trying harder or having more faith. It's about the deeper, more accurate truth meeting the lie at the seed level and dissolving it with love. If you've been stuck in the same patterns no matter what you've tried, this episode will show you why — and what's actually possible when transformation happens at the root.

In this episode, you'll discover:

→ The difference between feeling better and actually being different — and why it matters

→ Why affirmations and "trying harder" don't create lasting change

→ How barriers actually dissolve — gently, not through force

→ The "deeper, more accurate truth" that's been waiting underneath the lies

→ What's actually true about you — according to God's original design, not religious trauma

Healing Truth

You're not broken. You've been brilliantly adaptive. The barriers you carry aren't proof that something is wrong with you — they're proof that you survived something difficult. And the deeper, more accurate truth about who you are? It's been waiting for you all along.

Scripture: Romans 12:2 — "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind."

Ready to go deeper?

Discover your personal healing path: Take our free Religious Trauma Assessment at ReligiousTraumaQuiz.com and uncover which of the 12 hidden barriers might be shaping your relationship with God, yourself, and others. You'll receive a personalized report plus my complete Essentials Starter Kit—including my book He Is Enough, Truth Over Tradition mini-course, live reading circles, and access to our supportive community—all completely FREE.

Transform your story completely: Join the Coming Home Journey at TheComingHomeJourney.com—a six-month guided experience to unravel religious trauma, instill God's truth, and create your new story alongside women who truly understand.

About Debra

Debra Shafer is a spiritual healing coach for Christian women and the creator of the Coming Home Journey—a gentle, soul-level pathway to help women untangle religious trauma, rebuild trust in God, and find peace without walking away from their faith. As the founder of the Healing Religious Trauma Circle, Debra brings together decades of experience in personal ministry, Biblical psychology, and trauma-informed mentoring. She knows what it's like to love God deeply while wrestling with fear, shame, and silence. Known for her voice of gentle clarity, healing, and truth, she now walks women home to the God they always hoped was real.

Listener Love

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This isn't surface-level faith advice. It's soul-level restoration for Christian women healing from religious trauma who long for inner peace, spiritual healing, and the ability to trust God completely. Through addressing generational trauma and cultivating the deeper truth, we help you experience God's love and transform your identity from the inside out.