256: Becoming a Paid Speaker: What No On Tells You

Sean Barnes pulls back the curtain on what it truly takes to become a paid public speaker. Forget the “get rich from keynotes fast” promises, Sean shares the real story behind building influence, stepping on 100+ stages, and developing a clear, compelling message that event organizers actually want.

He breaks down the discipline behind effective communication, storytelling, audience connection, and what separates aspiring speakers from the ones who earn their place on stage. If you're working to grow your leadership voice, build a personal brand, or become a paid speaker, this episode gives you the roadmap most people won’t tell you.

Podcast Show Notes – Episode 256 | 11.18.2025

Episode Title: Becoming a Paid Speaker: What No One Tells You

Key Moments

00:00 – Opening in Vancouver 00:33 – The “Spaceship Moment” 01:05 – Reflecting on 5 Years of Speaking 01:41 – The truth behind paid speaking 02:04 – The power of repetition 02:29 – What event organizers look for 02:57 – How to craft a compelling message 03:25 – Finding your life story

Key Takeaways

1. Paid speaking is a marathon, you earn your place through reps, not shortcuts.
2. Stepping on as many stages as possible is the fastest way to grow your skillset.
3. Event organizers are overwhelmed with requests, differentiation and relationships matter.
4. Your story is your power: clarity, storytelling, and emotional resonance are non-negotiable.
5. Influence is built over time through consistency, credibility, and the courage to share your message.

Host: Sean Barnes

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