253. I Don't Recognize Myself Anymore — Understanding Identity After Child Loss

You don't wake up one day and decide you're a different person.
It happens slowly — as the life you expected is taken away and survival becomes your focus. And then one day, you realize the woman looking back at you doesn't feel familiar anymore.

If you've found yourself thinking, "I don't know who I am now," — you're not alone.

In this episode, we talk about the disorienting identity shift that often comes after child loss — not in the earliest days, but later, when the shock wears off and reality settles in. This is the stage many grieving moms aren't prepared for, and rarely hear named.

This conversation will help you understand what's happening inside you, why it feels so unsettling, and how Scripture speaks directly into this place of grief.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• Why identity rupture doesn't happen right away — and why that delayed realization can feel so destabilizing

• How Naomi's story in the book of Ruth mirrors the loss of self many grieving moms experience

• What it means when you don't recognize yourself anymore — and why that awareness matters

• How naming this stage of grief becomes the first step toward clarity, steadiness, and movement

If you're standing in that in-between place — no longer who you were, but unsure of who you're becoming — this episode is for you.

✨ Live Gathering for Grieving Moms — February 26 & 27

If you're realizing that life without your child has shifted everything — the way you see yourself, your relationships, and the future you thought you were moving toward — you don't have to navigate that disorientation on your own. I'm hosting a two-day live gathering for grieving moms.

This will be a time to come together, be present, and talk honestly about grief, identity, and what it looks like to keep lliving when life no longer feels familiar.

👉 Learn more and register here:
LIVE GATHERING LINK

📘 The Grief Roadmap — Waitlist Open

The Grief Roadmap is a faith-centered small group experience for grieving moms who are feeling overwhelmed, scattered, or unsure how to move forward after the loss of their child — and are longing for steady support, structure, and guidance as they learn how to live with loss.

Joining the waitlist:

• Keeps you informed as details are released
• Gives you early access when enrollment opens on February 19
• Includes waitlist-only benefits not offered elsewhere

The next group begins March 5.

👉 Join the waitlist here:
WAITLIST LINK

Teresa Davis
Your Grief Mentor