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Went to a sex club with my man & Shanta… yeah, you already know this episode is chaos 😭

From unexpected interactions 👀
to me lowkey getting put in situations I was NOT ready for 😬
to the stuff that actually surprised me the most…

And somehow we ALSO got into:
✨ my wild Ari Lennox celebrity interaction
✨ what I surprised my man with (yeah… we going there 😏)
✨ AND me meeting his siblings for the first time… (why that feel more stressful than the sex club?? 😭)

This episode is messy, funny, and lowkey educational…
because baby… some of this really Needs To Be Studied 📚

🎧 Tap in now — you’re not ready for this one.

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Everybody got rules in dating… but let’s be real — are they actually protecting your relationship, or slowly killing it?

This week on Needs To Be Studied, we getting into the truth about relationship rules, boundaries, and control — and why some of y’all “standards” might be the exact reason your love life not working.

We talking:

• when boundaries turn into control 👀

• why too many rules kill chemistry

• the difference between protecting your peace vs sabotaging your relationship

• are “no texting after 10pm” type rules actually toxic?

• do healthy relationships even need rules… or just trust?

And yeah… we getting a little messy:

• Are people using “boundaries” as an excuse to control their partner?

• If you need a rule for everything… do you even trust them?

• And be honest… are YOUR rules pushing people away?

If you’ve ever said “I don’t play that” in dating… this episode might humble you just a little bit 😭

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On this episode of Needs To Be Studied, Billy is joined by Dr. Felder to unpack a question many people are afraid to ask:

Are the relationship patterns we learned from our parents affecting our love lives today?

From emotionally unavailable households to chaotic relationships we witnessed growing up, many of us unknowingly carry those experiences into our adult dating lives.

Dr. Felder breaks down how childhood experiences shape our expectations of love, communication, and conflict—and why so many people repeat the same relationship patterns without realizing it.

The conversation also dives into one of the biggest questions people have today: When do you actually need therapy?And if you do decide to go, how do you find the right therapist for you?

Billy and Dr. Felder discuss the signs that therapy might be helpful, common misconceptions about therapy, and practical advice for choosing a therapist that truly fits your needs.

If you’ve ever wondered why you date the same type of person, struggle with emotional connection, or feel stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns… this episode needs to be studied.

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