25-274 Leading Through Service

The world tells men that leadership is about being in charge, having authority, and getting others to serve you. But Jesus flipped that script upside down. He showed us that true leadership isn’t about being the loudest voice or the one with the most power—it’s about being the first to serve. A godly man doesn’t climb the ladder to stand above others; he kneels down to lift others up. Today we’re talking about leading through service.

Our springboard for today’s discussion is:“For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” — Mark 10:45 (ESV)

Jesus redefined greatness. While the disciples argued about who would be the greatest, Jesus pointed to a different standard—the servant. Leadership in the kingdom of God is not about control; it’s about sacrifice. It’s not about status; it’s about humility.

Leading through service begins in your home. It means listening to your wife instead of just demanding your way. It means helping with the little things, even when you’re tired. It means investing time in your children, not just providing for them financially but being present in their lives.

It also extends to the church and community. A godly leader doesn’t wait for recognition—he steps into needs quietly, faithfully, and with love. He isn’t looking to be applauded; he’s looking to reflect Christ.

Brother, this kind of leadership requires strength. It takes humility to put others first. It takes courage to lower yourself. But here’s the reward: when you lead through service, you point people straight to Jesus. Your family will trust you more deeply. Your community will respect you more genuinely. And heaven will applaud your obedience.

The culture says, “Be served.” Christ says, “Serve.” And that’s the model we’re called to follow.

Question of the Day:How are you currently leading through service—and where is God calling you to lay down pride and pick up humility?

Mini Call to Action:Do one act of service today that costs you something—your time, your comfort, or your pride. Do it in secret, just for God’s glory.

Prayer:Lord, make me a servant-leader. Teach me to love through sacrifice, to lead through humility, and to point my family and others to You through the way I serve.

Let’s Get To Work!Great leaders don’t demand to be served—they roll up their sleeves and serve first. That’s kingdom manhood.

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