21. Why “language first” is the wrong startegy

If you’ve ever been told “first learn the language, then integrate”, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Nasta Suomi, we gently challenge one of the most common — and most misleading — pieces of advice given to immigrants. Many people believe they must perfect the local language before they can fully participate in society. In reality, this strategy often leads to years of frustration, silence, and feeling like an outsider.

In this episode, we talk about:

• why learning a language in isolation often doesn’t build confidence

• how shame and fear of mistakes stop people from speaking

• why language alone doesn’t help you understand people or culture

• what research says about social interaction and integration

• what actually helps immigrants feel at home — even with imperfect language skills

This episode is not about blaming learners or teachers.
It’s about rethinking integration in a more human, realistic way.

You don’t need perfect language to belong. You need connection.

📢 A short written summary of this episode will be shared in the Telegram channel: Nasta suomi.