21. The Friendship Audit: Are your friends helping you grow, or holding you back?

What do you think about friendship? Was it just a random, unexpected thing that happened, or is it a conscious choice? Who becomes your friend?

Peterson’s third rule for life is phrased as: “Make friends with people who want the best for you.” On the surface, it sounds simple and clear. But look closer, and questions arise. First, how can you tell who truly wants the best for you? And second, why should anyone limit themselves when choosing their social circle?

In this episode, we’ll explore how our environment shapes us, what signs can help us understand whether a relationship helps us grow or pulls us down, how childhood and starting conditions affect adult life, and whether it’s possible to break free from a vicious cycle.

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