199: Navigating ADHD in Marriage (Right After My Diagnosis)

In this deeply personal episode, I’m sharing something super fresh: I was just diagnosed with ADHD this week. Yep, it’s official—and I’m still very much in the thick of processing it all. Join me as I talk about how I got the diagnosis, what it’s bringing up in my marriage (yep, we’re a double ADHD couple!), and how it’s reshaping how I see myself, my past, and my parenting.

From the messy car-packing fights to the guilt of passing traits onto my kid, I’m unpacking it all—raw, unfiltered, and with a lot of heart. I’m also sharing how healing my attachment style gave me a head start on understanding ADHD, and why sensitivity and distractibility might just be superpowers.

If you’ve ever wondered how ADHD shows up in adult relationships—or if you're just looking for real talk about neurodivergence, emotional growth, and love—this one’s for you.

👉 Plus, don’t miss the free worksheet I created to help you feel your emotions—a foundational skill for both ADHD and secure attachment. Get it at sarahcohan.com/emotions

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