191: "What Do You Do?" - Answering as a Nurse Coach

In this episode, Shelby and Laura get real about one of the most awkward questions for new nurse coaches: “What do you do?” They unpack why this question can trigger so much internal resistance, how to move through early identity wobble, and what makes a response truly land. Through honest stories, practical tips, and encouragement, they help you feel more grounded and confident in your unique nurse coaching journey.

Key Takeaways:

• You’re not alone—it’s easier with a partner in the journey.
• The early days of being a nurse coach can feel confusing and vulnerable.
• Ditch the credentials; lead with who you help and how.
• Make your answer compelling enough to invite curiosity.
• Practice saying it out loud until it feels natural.
• Networking isn’t about impressing—it’s about connecting.
• Awkward convos are part of the process. Embrace the cringe.
• Stay open to “divine appointments”—you never know who’s listening.

Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction and the Value of Collaboration

02:01 – Navigating the Challenges of Being a New Nurse Coach

07:11 – Crafting Your Response: What Not to Do

13:34 – How to Answer 'What Do You Do?' with Clarity and Curiosity

19:02 – Building Confidence in Your Coaching Identity

21:20 – Facing the Discomfort of Networking

24:49 – Why Volume of Conversations Matters

26:12 – Practice Makes Peaceful

30:23 – Normalizing the Cringe

32:28 – Divine Appointments and Meaningful Conversations

36:06 – Taking the Focus Off Yourself