190: The Lost Art of Conversation: Tone, Curiosity & Connection

In this episode, we dive deep into what truly makes a quality conversation. As technology advances and distractions increase, genuine human connection is becoming harder to find. They explore why tone matters, why listening is a skill, how curiosity can transform dialogue, and why social cues and body language are being lost in the digital age.

From miscommunication to emotional triggers, vulnerability, conflict, and even how environment shapes the way we talk — this conversation unpacks the many layers of communicating with intention.

A funny, insightful and grounded episode for anyone who wants to talk better, listen better, or connect more deeply.

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⏳ TIMESTAMPS / CHAPTERS
00:00 – Technology & the disappearing art of conversation
02:44 – What makes a “quality” conversation?
05:20 – Is conversation something one person can control?
08:02 – Why listening is the real superpower
11:18 – Distractions, phones & divided attention
13:50 – Small talk: underrated or pointless?
17:33 – The importance of curiosity in conversations
20:44 – Creating intentional spaces for real dialogue
25:12 – Why people avoid certain conversations
27:58 – Social cues, awareness & body language
32:30 – Are we losing communication skills after the pandemic?
36:45 – Reading body language vs reading words
40:22 – Tone: the invisible force shifting conversations
45:09 – Miscommunication, triggers & emotional responses
49:40 – How upbringing shapes tone sensitivity
53:55 – Vulnerability, nervousness & saying what you feel
58:41 – The difference between words and intention
01:03:04 – Final thoughts: how to have better conversations