18. Incentives: Motivating Kids the Right Way

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Should parents use incentives to motivate their kids? And if so, what kind of incentives work best, and when are they appropriate? In this episode, we dive into the often-debated topic of incentives in parenting. We explore the balance between fostering intrinsic motivation and using external rewards to encourage good behavior or achieve goals.

Join us as we unpack:

• The pros and cons of using incentives.
• Different types of incentives—material rewards, experiences, praise, and privileges.
• Guidelines for using incentives to empower kids rather than create dependency.

Reflection Question:

• How can you connect the use of incentives to your family’s values and goals?

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Using incentives is not just about getting kids to comply—it’s about helping them grow into motivated, self-driven individuals. Tune in to this episode for practical insights and strategies to make incentives a meaningful part of your parenting toolkit!