179. The Resonance Gap: Why Coaches Struggle To Make The Impact They’re Here For

What if the real reason your coaching practice feels harder than it should isn’t about effort, strategy, or skill—but about resonance?

In this solo episode of the Sacred Changemakers Podcast, I invite you into a deeper conversation about the hidden energetic patterns shaping your success, connection, and impact. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing “all the right things” and yet your message still isn’t landing, your offers aren’t converting, or your business feels like pushing uphill, you may be caught in The Resonance Gap.

Together, we’ll explore:

• What resonance truly is, and why it’s more than just a spiritual idea.
• The two kinds of resonance gaps that quietly keep coaches stuck: the internal (between who you are and how you show up) and the external (between your frequency and your clients’).
• How different levels of consciousness (3D, 4D, 5D) create disconnects in the coaching relationship.
• The three core dimensions of resonance—personal, relational, and business/leadership—and how to recognize where you’re in sync and where you’re out of alignment.
• The three biggest blocks that keep you stuck in the gap and how to begin shifting them.
• Practical ways you can begin closing your own resonance gap today, so your work feels lighter, more magnetic, and more impactful.

This isn’t about doing more. It’s about aligning more. When you cultivate resonance, your energy becomes the invitation. Clients feel you before they hear you. Opportunities open without forcing. Your work flows in coherence with who you are and the people you’re here to serve.

Key Takeaways:

• Resonance is the energetic alignment between your inner essence, your external actions, and the interconnected world.
• Most coaches are speaking from higher levels of awareness than their clients are ready for, which creates disconnection in marketing, messaging, and coaching.
• You don’t need to wait for people to “catch up”, you can learn to bridge the gap with resonance.
• Personal, relational, and business resonance all matter, and when one is out of sync, everything feels harder than it needs to.
• Resonance can be cultivated, and small shifts in alignment can transform your impact.

If you’re curious to discover your own resonance code, your unique energetic blueprint, I invite you to take the Resonance Codes Quiz (link in the show notes). It’s the perfect next step to see where you naturally resonate and how you can begin bridging the gap with your clients.

This episode is a heartfelt invitation to stop pushing and start resonating, to step into a way of coaching and leading that feels natural, magnetic, and deeply impactful.

Episode Resources:

• Resonance Codes Quiz: https://quiz.sacredchangemakers.com
• Jayne’s LinkedIn Profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaynewarrilow/
• SacredChangemakers.com

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