165 - There’s No Such Thing as Right or Wrong

There’s No Such Thing as Right or Wrong – From Judgment to Freedom: What Really Guides Our Choices

How many times have you stressed over making the right decision? Or beat yourself up because you thought you made the wrong one?

In this episode of Unpacking Brain Drama, I explore a powerful idea from Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch: there is no such thing as right or wrong — only what serves your growth, and what doesn’t.

Most of us grew up with right versus wrong drilled into us. Right meant approval, belonging, being “good.” Wrong meant punishment, rejection, or shame. Over time, those rules shaped how we judged ourselves and others — keeping us stuck in comparison, people-pleasing, and fear of failure.

But what if “wrong” doesn’t exist? What if every decision you’ve ever made was actually the best decision you could have made with the tools you had at the time? And what if looking back and thinking, “I did it wrong,” only means that today you have more awareness than you did then?

💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why there really are no “wrong” decisions — only stepping stones that expand awareness.

• How judgment (of yourself and others) keeps you trapped in fear, comparison, and indecision.

• Why curiosity and compassion are powerful antidotes to judgment.

• Practical tools to shift from asking, “Is this right or wrong?” to asking, “Does this serve me? Does this serve my growth?”

• How reframing your past “mistakes” as valuable lessons can free you from shame and self-criticism.

I’ll also share personal stories of how I was once labeled the “black sheep” or the “rebel,” and how what others judged as “wrong” in me became my strength and truth. Plus, you’ll hear examples from my coaching clients who struggled with fear of judgment in meetings, people-pleasing in relationships, and the pressure to always do things “the right way.”

✨ Takeaway: When you release judgment, you release fear. Judgment is just fear wearing a mask. Replacing it with curiosity, awareness, and compassion brings you closer to love — and closer to your highest self.

So the next time you catch yourself asking, “Am I right or am I wrong?” pause and instead ask, “Does this serve me? Does this serve my growth?” That one question can shift you from judgment to freedom.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how to release the heavy weight of right and wrong, and step into the freedom of curiosity, self-compassion, and intentional living.

👉 Share this episode with someone who struggles with overthinking or self-criticism — it might be exactly what they need to hear today.

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