#151 Why Connection Comes First for Autistic Kids

In today's episode of The Autism Little Learners Podcast, I'm diving into one of the most meaningful parts of working with autistic preschoolers: connection. When we lead with compassion, honor sensory needs, and truly celebrate each child's unique way of being, we create the emotional safety that helps them learn, communicate, and thrive.

I'm sharing why stepping out of "teacher mode," validating autistic play, and tapping into deep interests are essential for forming authentic relationships. If you're ready for simple, practical strategies that build trust, reduce overwhelm, and create joyful, neuroaffirming classrooms and homes, this episode is for you.

• Building authentic connection creates a sense of emotional safety for autistic children.

• Sensory and regulation needs must be supported before meaningful connection can occur.

• A calm, steady adult presence helps children co-regulate and learn what regulation feels like.

• Stepping out of "teacher mode" makes connection more natural and less overwhelming.

• Autistic play is meaningful, valid, and should be honored rather than redirected.

• Deep interests are powerful bridges for building trust, engagement, and communication.

• Leading with compassion instead of compliance helps children feel seen, respected, and safe.

• Joyful, neuroaffirming environments increase engagement and support learning.

• Presuming competence communicates respect for all forms of communication and autonomy.

• Prioritizing connection has long-term positive effects on confidence, engagement, and overall development.

Links & Related Podcast Episodes

• Episode 90: Autism & Play Culture with Dr. Pamela Wolfberg: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-autism-little-learners-podcast/id1665404820?i=1000671411034

• Blog: Strength-Based Approach For Teaching Autistic Children: https://autismlittlelearners.com/strength-based-approach/

• Barry Prizant's book (Uniquely Human): https://amzn.to/3MjnpgF

You may also be interested in these supports:

• Visual Support Starter Set

• Visual Supports Facebook Group

• Autism Little Learners on Instagram

• Autism Little Learners on Facebook