15. Why Preteen Independence Fails Without Connection Habits

Do you feel anxious when your preteen asks for more independence?Are you torn between wanting to trust your child and fearing everything will fall apart if you let go? Do you wonder if your need to control is actually creating more distance instead of connection?

In today’s episode, we’re talking about one of the most common — and misunderstood — parenting struggles: balancing guidance and independence with your preteen.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for controlling too much, afraid of letting go, or unsure how to lead without losing connection, this episode is for you. You’ll learn why control often backfires, how faith-led boundaries create safety, and the simple daily habits that help your preteen grow responsibly without damaging trust.

This episode will help you move from pressure and fear to calm leadership, stronger connection, and confident parenting — one small habit at a time.

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