143 | Misplaced Loyalty: Right People, Wrong Direction

In this episode of The Living It Out Podcast, Pastor Dave Maestas teaches from 2 Samuel 3:1–39, confronting a hard but necessary truth: you can be surrounded by the right people and still be headed in the wrong direction.

This chapter highlights the danger of misplaced loyalty. As David grows stronger, the house of Saul grows weaker—but many characters remain committed to systems, leaders, and patterns God is clearly moving away from. Abner's power struggles, shifting allegiances, and eventual downfall reveal how pride, fear, and self-interest can keep people fighting for the wrong cause.

Pastor Dave unpacks how this passage speaks directly to our lives today—our friendships, leadership structures, workplaces, and even churches.

In this message, you'll learn:

• Why loyalty without discernment can become disobedience

• How pride and control can blind us to where God is moving

• The difference between being faithful and being stubborn

• Why following God sometimes requires leaving familiar teams or systems

• How to evaluate whether you're aligned with God's direction or just comfortable people