#141: What Happens In Your 1st 30 Days Sober

When you stop drinking, it’s easy to expect a clean upward curve—sleep gets better, moods improve, life gets easier. But what really happens in those first 30 days often surprises people. It’s not about failure or doing it wrong. It’s about understanding what your body and mind are going through.

In this episode, I walk through the first month of sobriety, week by week. We talk about the physical and emotional changes that can show up—from restless nights and sugar cravings to random anxiety and emotional fog—and why they’re all part of the process.

I also explain why discomfort in early sobriety doesn’t mean it’s not working, how your brain starts seeing triggers more clearly, and how your body slowly begins to reset. Most of all, this episode is a reminder that every hard moment is not a setback—it’s your system healing.

If you’re in your first 30 days, or supporting someone who is, this episode will help you feel more grounded, less confused, and more confident that you're not doing it wrong.

Episode Highlights:
0:00 – Why sobriety feels inconsistent day to day
1:00 – What really happens in your first 30 days alcohol-free
1:51 – Week 1: Physical symptoms, restless sleep, and intense cravings
4:10 – What cravings really mean and how to ride them out
6:12 – Week 2: The “now what?” phase, emotional overwhelm, and bargaining
10:01 – Week 3: Feeling good one day and terrible the next
12:19 – Week 4: Regaining trust, time, and small but real wins
14:23 – The best questions to ask after 30 days

If this episode resonated with you and you want more tools, reflections, and support for building a life you actually enjoy without alcohol, visit https://soberandhappy.com/home/ to explore the podcast, resources, and next steps.