#14. Grace isn’t owed

"We often think we have to forgive people no matter what, but what if forgiveness isn’t something we owe? In this episode, I talk about why choosing yourself comes first—especially when someone hurts you on purpose and then asks for forgiveness. Forgiving can help you heal, but it doesn’t mean you have to forget or keep letting the hurt happen. Sometimes saying no and setting boundaries is the real way to take care of yourself."

In this episode, I reflect on why choosing yourself isn’t selfish—and how walking away can be the most honest form of healing.