14: Boundaries & Breadcrumbs—Rewriting Relationship Energy

I’ve had my moments of expecting mind-reading, meeting me in my mess, or loving me before I even understood what I needed. But here’s the real lesson:

• ​Love isn’t earned—it’s chosen. Know your worth and choose someone who shows up and adds peace, not chaos.
• ​Healing doesn’t require perfection. It’s about emotional intelligence, awareness, and choosing intention over reactivity.
• ​Matching energy isn’t petty—it’s data. It’s checking in: “Is this what I really want to receive?”
• ​Core values > surface vibes. Build a relationship based on stability, accountability, and emotional presence—not aesthetics or playlists.
• ​Boundaries bring peace. You don’t have to over-give or shrink yourself to maintain connection.

Ending on a High Note:You don’t have to earn love or abandon yourself to keep the peace. The right love brings peace—it complements, not compromises. You

are the love you’ve been waiting for. And everything beyond that? That’s just the bonus.

Episode Notes:

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